Gardening within a mile or two of the British coast is a different craft to gardening inland. The wind is rarely still, salt rides in on it, and rain often arrives sideways. Soil is frequently thin, sandy or stony, draining so fast that a summer downpour is gone by teatime. Anything with soft, sappy growth and large tender leaves will be shredded by July.
The rewards are real, though. Winters are mild, hard frosts are rare, and the light along the coast is glorious. Many plants that sulk in a frost pocket inland positively revel in seaside conditions, provided you choose the right ones and give them shelter while they establish.
Before you buy a single plant, do two things.
First, improve the soil. Fork in plenty of well-rotted garden compost or manure, plus a bucket or two of seaweed gathered after a storm and left out in the rain for a week to rinse off excess salt. Seaweed is rich in trace elements and breaks down into a lovely crumbly texture. On heavy ground, add grit as well; drainage matters more here than richness.
Second, create shelter. A solid fence or wall funnels wind over the top and drops it in a damaging curl on the far side. A permeable windbreak — a mixed hedge, a slatted screen, a few tough shrubs — filters the wind instead, and the calm zone behind it can extend ten times the height of the barrier. Even a low stone wall a metre high makes a surprising difference to what will grow behind it.
These form the backbone of a coastal border. All tolerate wind, salt spray and dry spells once established, and most are long-lived and easy to divide.
A cottage border needs a few evergreen bones to hold it together in winter and to shelter the perennials around them. Keep them compact and clip lightly after flowering.
Nothing says cottage garden quite like plants that wander and reappear where they fancy. In a coastal border, self-seeders are also insurance: if a gale or a cold snap takes out a plant, there are usually seedlings waiting.
Leave seed heads standing over winter for the birds and for next year's seedlings, and tidy the border only in March.
Plant in autumn or early spring so roots are settled before summer. Set perennials 30–45cm apart, closer than you might inland, so the border knits together quickly and shelters itself. Water well for the first season, then ease off. Plants mollycoddled with constant watering and feeding grow soft and floppy, exactly what coastal wind exploits.
Mulch with composted bark or gravel in spring. Gravel suits coastal borders particularly well: it suppresses weeds, reflects light, and keeps the necks of lavender and eryngium dry. Resist rich feeding; a light general-purpose feed in spring is plenty.
Deadhead the fast repeat-flowerers through summer, but leave a few seed heads on anything you want to spread. Stake only what genuinely needs it — in a cottage border, a little looseness is the point. By August the whole thing should look as though it has always been there: a bit blowsy, faintly scented, and entirely at home with the sound of the sea behind it.